Staying Motivated When It Gets Hard: 10 Firefly Reminders for Your Online Business Journey

Let’s be real for a moment — building an online business isn’t easy. I know, because I’ve been there… and honestly, I still am. When I first started, I was so full of excitement. I had all these dreams, all this energy, and I thought, “This is it! I’m going to create something amazing.”

But then reality hit.
No income at the beginning. No clear direction.
Just me, my laptop, endless cups of coffee, and the constant feeling that maybe… maybe this wasn’t going to work out.

I’ve wanted to quit a hundred thousand times — no exaggeration. Some days, I felt unstoppable; others, I was crying in front of my computer, asking myself why I was even doing this. I changed my personal brand a few times because I didn’t even know who I was or what I truly wanted to share with the world.

And yet, here I am. Still standing. Still creating. Still believing.
Not because it was easy, but because I’m stubborn — a true Taurus — and that stubbornness saved me.

So, if you’re feeling lost, tired, or questioning everything… these are my 10 Firefly reminders to help you stay motivated when things get hard.

When you’re deep in the chaos — no sales, no clients, algorithms changing, everything going wrong — go back to your why.

Why did you start in the first place? Was it freedom? Was it the dream of working from anywhere? Was it the need to create something that’s truly yours? Maybe finances?

That why is your anchor. When I lose motivation, I remind myself that I didn’t start this journey to quit halfway. I started because I wanted to build a life where I could breathe, create, and feel proud of what I’m building — even if it takes longer than expected.

Write your “why” somewhere you can see it every day. Because when your motivation fades, your purpose will keep you going.

You know all those online “gurus” who promise overnight success, 10K months in 30 days, or instant results? Yeah… forget them.

Here’s the truth no one likes to admit: growth takes time. Sometimes, it takes a lot of time. You’ll post content that gets no likes. You’ll launch offers that no one buys. You’ll question if anyone even sees your work.

But every small step matters.

Every failed launch teaches you something.
Every quiet month builds your resilience.

Your business isn’t a microwave; it’s a garden. You plant the seeds, water them daily, and trust that the flowers will bloom — not today, but soon.

When I was just starting, I thought that resting meant I was lazy. I’d push myself to the point of burnout — long nights, no breaks, constant pressure to “do more.”

Now I know better.
Rest is not quitting. Rest is strategy.

If you’re exhausted, step away. Go for a walk. Go on a short trip. Sit in silence. Meditate. Get a massage. Breathe.

Every time I permit myself to rest, I come back stronger, more creative, and more aligned with my purpose. You can’t pour from an empty cup — so stop trying to.

Let’s talk about something real — technology. It’s easy to get overwhelmed or even scared by AI tools. But here’s my rule: AI is my assistant, not my master or something to be afraid of.

I use it to brainstorm, to organize, to help me create — but I never let it replace my intuition or creativity.
Think of AI as your digital right hand, not your brain.

You’re still the heart, the storyteller, the visionary. AI just helps you move faster, like having a smart friend who reminds you of what’s possible when you dare to create boldly.

When you feel stuck, don’t isolate yourself.

Find people who inspire you. Learn from those who’ve been there — YouTube creators, mentors, online coaches, people who share their real stories, not just highlight reels.

I’ve learned more from watching and studying others than from any course. And that’s not copying — that’s growing.

Let other people’s success remind you that it’s possible. If it worked for them, it can work for you too. You just need your version of the strategy — your authentic way.

When things go wrong (and they will), gratitude is your superpower.
You can’t stay frustrated and grateful at the same time — it’s impossible.

Start your mornings with three simple thoughts of gratitude:
“I’m grateful for my skills....because...xy”
“I’m grateful for the chance to create....because...xy”
“I’m grateful that I didn’t give up yesterday.”

My dear friend Amy Lynn, a beautiful gratitude coach, always says that gratitude shifts your vibration. And she’s right — it does. When you focus on what’s good, you attract more of it.

Even if it’s just being thankful for one small sale, one kind message, or one creative idea — it’s enough to keep your light shining.

This one is hard, I know. Social media makes it look like everyone is thriving, traveling, making millions, and working from the beach with a smoothie in hand.

But let’s be honest — you don’t see their behind-the-scenes. You don’t see the sleepless nights, the self-doubt, the failures.

Comparison kills creativity.
The moment you stop measuring your journey against someone else’s, you start winning.

You’re not behind — you’re building. And your timing is perfect.

One of the best ways to stay motivated is to keep your dreams visible.
I have a vision board filled with images of the life I’m creating — not just material things, but feelings. Freedom. Balance. Joy. Creativity.

Every time I look at it, I remember what I’m working toward.

Your brain needs reminders of what’s possible. So print out the

dream destinations, the home office setup, the testimonials you want to receive, the emails you want to wake up to.
See it. Feel it. Believe it.

Because one day, it won’t just be a vision board — it’ll be your reality.

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Motivation doesn’t come from magic; it comes from movement.

When you feel lost, make a simple plan.
Write down what needs to be done today, this week, this month. Start small. Maybe it’s just updating your website, recording one reel, or finishing a blog post.

You don’t need to know all the steps — you just need to start.

And yes, sometimes plans change. That’s okay. Adjust, adapt, but don’t stop. Progress is progress, even when it’s messy.

This journey isn’t about quick success. It’s about building something that lasts — something that’s yours.

There will be days when no one believes in you. Days when even you stop believing in yourself.
But that’s where faith comes in.

You have to believe in the slow burn — the kind of fire that doesn’t explode but keeps glowing, quietly, steadily, until one day it lights up everything.

You’re not just building a business. You’re building a story, a legacy, a lifestyle.

If you’re reading this, please know this: you are not behind. You’re not too late, too old, too tired, or too anything. You’re right where you need to be.

I’ve been through every emotion — excitement, frustration, doubt, exhaustion — and yet, every time I thought about quitting, I remembered why I started.

I’m still on my journey, still learning, still failing, still shining.
And so are you.

If you need support, encouragement, or just someone to talk to about your next steps, I’m opening my Firefly community soon — a warm space for dreamers, doers, and creators who believe in building with heart.

And if you want to go deeper, you can book a motivational call with me — let’s talk about your goals, your vision, and how to find that spark again when things get hard.

Because trust me — it’s worth it.
Keep glowing, keep creating, and never forget: even when it’s hard, your light still matters. 🌙✨